Raising a Dragon Son: A Chinese Mom's Memoir

By Shaoping Moss

It's easy to become a parent, but extremely challenging to be a qualified and successful one. When Len and I started raising our son, Eli, we were clueless about the business of parenting. Learning on the job has made us veterans, and our experiences educated all three of us.That was quite a challenge, and it's also quite a job now to tell the story, a story about how we brought up Eli, helping him grow from an infant into an intelligent and mature young man, helping him grow both "roots" and "wings" in an interracial family. I am an amateur writer just as I was an amateur parent, eagerly searching memories, e-mails, and records long forgotten until now. But it's been fun to do because the project has been a happy one. The project may throw some light on what it takes to raise a child. I'll focus on the interaction leading to important decisions concerning early childhood challenges, music and sports, religious education, high school, college and graduate school, career and marriage. And the most important lesson Len and I learned in our joint venture: we tried to offer advice and support rather than commands and criticism. Our goal was two-way communication. In this dynamic of "East meets West" did I overdo my part, my influence, and come on too strong as a Chinese mom? And what was Len's role as a Jewish father? The reader must judge.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 1544601506
• ISBN13: 9781544601502
• Release Date: March 2017
• Publisher: Createspace Independent Publishing Platform
• Length: 370 Pages
• Weight: 1.58 lbs.
• Dimensions: 1.0" x 6.1" x 9.2"