It's Not the Same Without You

by Mitch Finley

Book Overview

In a heartfelt invitation to lapsed or estranged Catholics, Mitch Finley takes a realistic look at the reasons people feel alienated, and proposes ways to overcome the anger, bitterness, and resentment so that they may return. Sixty million people in the United States claim a Catholic identity. The next largest group--approximately nine million--is made up of people who are ""fallen away"" Catholics. Mitch Finley addresses this audience, as well as...

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 1625645686
• ISBN13: 9781625645685
• Release Date: January 2014
• Publisher: Wipf & Stock Publishers
• Length: 194 Pages
• Weight: 0.55 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.5" x 5.5" x 8.4"

Customer Reviews

A Practical Guide for Returning Catholics

IT'S NOT THE SAME WITHOUT YOU: COMING HOME TO THE CATHOLIC CHURCH by Mitch Finley is an interesting book dealing with lapsed Catholics and (from their perspective) how they find their way back to the Church and (from the perspective of ministry) how they can be encouraged to return. The author, who has penned a number of short books, asserts that not only must the Church work to welcome home those who have been alienated by abuse, misinterpretation, confusion, hypocrisy, and indifference, but that those people owe it to themselves to take the concrete steps to reconcile themselves with the faith of their childhood. A good portion of the book consists of anecdotes of both successful returnees, works in process and failed attempts as Mr. Finley explains the many reasons for initial alienation as well as opportunities for evangelization.The central theme is one of reconciliation on both parts, and of the need for deep and genuine listening to the concerns and hurts (both real and imagined) of those who have become estranged. Many have turned away from the church, some for valid reasons. He encourages who have left because of the human failings of its clergy and members, to recognize that the church is much larger than its members; it is faith. He also presents several models of successful outreach employed by a number of parishes throughout the country. Returning Catholics are given specifics on how to once again become part of the life of the Church in all aspects: faith, social, community, morality. The author offers a gentle approach, offering a model for reconciliation rather than condemnation.The book is generally well written; there are a few grammatical errors and some inconsistent statistics. However they detract only slightly from what is a good presentation of reconciliation and return.