Is He Depressed or What?: What to Do When the Man You Love Is Irritable, Moody, And Withdrawn

By David B. Wexler

Book Overview

Millions of women ask themselves the same question every day. They wonder whether their husband or boyfriend's short temper, tendency to withdraw, and mysterious physical complaints might be signs of some deeper problem. Is he depressed, they wonder, or what? The tricky part of recognizing male depression is that, very often, it doesn't look like depression at all. Depressed guys often mask their depression with workaholism or substance abuse. Sometimes they withdraw from their relationships or lash out in defensive (and sometimes aggressive) ways. If you think the man in your life is struggling with depression, this book can help you recognize his symptoms and encourage him in overcoming his depressed feelings. The book will also show you how to take care of yourself and not get lost in his depression. It provides a range of strategies you can use to communicate with him effectively, cope with his physical symptoms like insomnia and sexual dysfunction, and rebuild intimacy in your relationship. Ultimately, the book offers compassionate (if sometimes firm) advice to help you do what's best for him, for yourself, and for your relationship. Step-by-step advice to help you: Distinguish between typical and male-type depression Connect and communicate with a depressed guy Help him make the most of psychological and medical treatment Negotiate issues of sexual and emotional intimacy Set safe boundaries and take care of yourself

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 1572244240
• ISBN13: 9781572244245
• Release Date: January 2006
• Publisher: New Harbinger Publications
• Length: 188 Pages
• Weight: 0.66 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.5" x 6.1" x 9.1"

Customer Reviews

Not just for women

This book is well written and a quick read that is good for women who are concerned about the man in their life. It is also a good book for men to read to better understand the problems of depression in men. This seems to be a topic that has not gotten nearly as much attention as depression in women. With the popularity of the internet the problem of depression in men is beginning to get more attention and it is becoming easier to find information. As of now this is easily one of the top five books available for men with depression. [...]

An excellent guide teaches all the basics of male depression symptoms, treatment, and a concerned pa

Husbands or boyfriends who demonstrate short tempers, the tendency to withdraw, and a variety of physical problems may actually be depressed: but how can the myriad of symptoms involved be properly analyzed to determine depression - and what can be done? Step-by-step advice examines the symptoms of different kinds of depression, tells how to effectively communicate with the depressed person, and tells how to locate treatment and what to watch for. An excellent guide teaches all the basics of male depression symptoms, treatment, and a concerned partner's options. Diane C. Donovan California Bookwatch

This book got me out of a doozy

Dr. Wexler's book was inspiring and insightful, to say the least. His metaphors and simple, yet thoughtful, techniques and insights changed my relationship. This book helped me overcome my semi-depressed life that seemed to consist of the same day over and over again. I am now able to see myself and my relationship in a whole new light.

Great guide to the hidden epidemic of Male Depression

This is a great little book, filled with helpful insights and vignettes. I found myself quoting Dr. Wexler's book so often in treatment that I finally got smart and started making it required reading for all of my clients, both couples and individuals, for whom male depression is an issue. Janice Horowitz, M.S.W.

This book was easy to read and very helpful!

Dr. Wexler's style was relaxed and easy to follow. I felt like I was having a conversation with him. The exercises and summaries were very helpful. Dr. Wexler gave practical advice that I plan to follow. Thank you!