Everything He Hasn't Told You Yet: A New Way to Get Men Talking about Stuff That Matters

By Martin O'Connor and Burton Silver

For any woman who has ever been haunted by the question What is he thinking?, the icebreakers in EVERYTHING HE HASN?T TOLD YOU YET are designed to loosen his lips and crack the monosyllabic male code. Each thought-provoking scenario includes a psychological key to unearthing deeper dialogues about honesty, self-awareness, commitment, and sense of humor'in short, clues to help a woman understand what makes her man tick. Couples will be laughing, connecting, and revealing insights that may have been hidden even to themselves.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 1580088864
• ISBN13: 9781580088862
• Release Date: October 2007
• Publisher: Ten Speed Press
• Length: 374 Pages
• Weight: 0.87 lbs.
• Dimensions: 1.3" x 5.4" x 6.9"

Customer Reviews

Fantastic conversation starter!

I got this book to try to facilitate more communication with my fiance. He really liked the questions in the book and I did too. We just skipped over ones that didn't apply to him or to us and kept going! This book is good for EVERYONE though, I sat with my mom for a few hours reading through some of the questions and we had a great time! Definately worth getting!

Why Didn't Anyone Tell Me About This Stuff?

Everything He Hasn't Told You Yet: A New Way to Get Men Talking About Stuff That Matters My husband is the considered, quiet type who I have to literally strangle to get anything meaningful out of. It's so frustrating. But I read a starred review of Everything He Hasn't Told You Yet in the American Library Journal. What caught my interest was that it claimed to be a series of icebreakers to help women get their men to reveal what made them tick. Well, that was good enough for me. It actually works! I'm getting conversation. And it's so easy. The scenario in the book that especially worked was Mean to Me. Hubby unearthed all sorts of things about himself. Like, I didn't know he really hated his birthday. And now I know why. The American Library Journal also said: 'Everything He Hasn't Told You Yet is clever, fun, hard to put down, and highly recommended.' Ditto from me.

Highly Effective, A Real Breakthrough

This book is truly original and astonishingly effective. I've been in a loving, secure relationship now for three years but we just didn't seem to have much to say to each other any more. In other words, the magic seemed to have gone and it didn't feel like we were going anywhere. Not any more! Right from the very first scenario, this book lived up to its promise and had him telling me all kinds of things he hadn't thought to tell me before. It brought up lots of stuff that we'd never thought to discuss and it made for lots of laughter and a few tears too. I'd recommend it to anyone who wants to reinvigorate a relationship.