Can't We Talk about Something More Pleasant?: A Memoir

By Roz Chast

Book Overview

#1 New York Times Bestseller

2014 NATIONAL BOOK AWARD FINALIST

In her first memoir, New Yorker cartoonist Roz Chast brings her signature wit to the topic of aging parents. Spanning the last several years of their lives and told through four-color cartoons, family photos, and documents, and a narrative as rife with laughs as it is with tears, Chast's memoir is both comfort and comic relief for anyone experiencing the life-altering loss of elderly parents.

When it came to her elderly mother and father, Roz held to the practices of denial, avoidance, and distraction. But when Elizabeth Chast climbed a ladder to locate an old souvenir from the "crazy closet"--with predictable results--the tools that had served Roz well through her parents' seventies, eighties, and into their early nineties could no longer be deployed.

While the particulars are Chast-ian in their idiosyncrasies--an anxious father who had relied heavily on his wife for stability as he slipped into dementia and a former assistant principal mother whose overbearing personality had sidelined Roz for decades--the themes are universal: adult children accepting a parental role; aging and unstable parents leaving a family home for an institution; dealing with uncomfortable physical intimacies; managing logistics; and hiring strangers to provide the most personal care.

An amazing portrait of two lives at their end and an only child coping as best she can, Can't We Talk about Something More Pleasant will show the full range of Roz Chast's talent as cartoonist and storyteller.

• Format: Hardcover
• Language: English
• ISBN: 1608198065
• ISBN13: 9781608198061
• Release Date: May 2014
• Publisher: Bloomsbury USA
• Length: 240 Pages
• Weight: 2.03 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.9" x 7.8" x 9.6"

Customer Reviews

I read this entire book in a 2 hour sitting

And I was so moved.

This book says it all- every funny, sad and true thing about ageing parents

If you and your parents live long enough (in the absence of radical medical advancements), you will experience many, if not all, of the honest, funny, and sad things immortalized by Roz Chast in the brilliant, humorous, illustrated book.

Helping me through...

Anyone with aging parents knows how difficult it can be to witness. Roz Chast nails ALL the feelings.